SOVEREIGN
Dating & Open Relationship Coaching for spiritual folks, seekers, & leaders in love
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You deserve relationships that bring you & those you love closer to Source.
Closer to the living intelligence pulsing through your body, your longings, and your connections.
Here, your desires are the compass.
Your sovereignty, the altar.
Your relationships — the sacred ground of transformation.
You’ve always sensed that love could be more — more honest, more expansive, more your own.
More attuned to the sacred. More aligned with the freedom you feel in your bones.
You’ve outgrown the too tight sweater of how it should be — and crave a path that meets the truth of who you are and how you love.
SOVEREIGN is a high-touch crucible for individuals, couples, and dynamic relational constellations ready to create legacy love and sovereign intimacy.
I’m Michaela, Sovereign Dating & Relationship Coach, host of The Sovereign Heart Podcast, co-author of Love Thy Body Sex, Love, & Relationships, and proud visionary artist of love.
my story...
7 years ago, I left the version of love I was handed and followed a deeper truth. I grieved a life I thought I was meant to have, even as I fell in love in my first open partnership.
I gave away everything — my plans, my identities, my certainty — and let the fire burn me clean.
In Portugal and Germany, I lived in free love communities that cracked my heart open. But the real crucible came after — when I returned. To culture shock. To confusion. To a partner as new to it all as I was.
Within the chaos we found a question that has remained in my heart as a beacon for navigating the uncharted waters of relationships that live on the edges of the norms…
“What brings us closer to love?”
I sit in this curiosity daily as I bear witness to the pulse of aliveness between lovers, partners, and dynamic relationships of all kinds.
I’m not here to fix you.
I’m here to walk beside you — gently, reverently, provocatively — through the holy fire of remembering.
& If there was anything I could transmit , right now, from the depth of my sovereign heart to yours it would be via the words of my all time favorite story teller, Clarissa Pinkola Estés:
"Go out in the woods, go out. If you don't go out in the woods nothing will ever happen and your life will never begin".
You already know your love life is sacred.
You’ve walked the edge of devotion and freedom. Felt the ache of wanting more. Tried to fit yourself inside systems that never saw you clearly.
This work begins with what’s real:
You — in the half-formed fantasies of what love could be, if only the world were different.
You — in the fear of being too much, too different, too unrelatable.
You & all whom you love — in the sacred mess of trying, failing, and choosing to try again.
& Guess what?…
You are different.
You’re not for everyone.
And that’s your power.
Your soul’s frequency of love, desire, and truth is the perfect match for the ones who are waiting for you to say yes — starting with yourself. Starting with the relationships you’re already graced with. Starting here.
Underneath the shame, the fear, the chaos… your sovereign relational blueprint is alive. Let’s cultivate it.
Let’s build a paradigm of love that doesn’t require you to contort or collapse — one that feels like kicking off too-tight shoes and walking barefoot in your truth.
Who This Crucible Is Curated For…
For those at the edge of evolution in love — ready to actualize wholeness, reclaim their truth, and live in relationships that liberate.
You’re not broken.
You’re not behind.
You’re on the brink of becoming — and this work is the gateway.
This is for you if you are…
✧ Emerging Into Truth
Exploring non-monogamy, open relating, or conscious dating — and longing for support that honors your values
Craving magnetic, safe, & grounded connection without sacrificing freedom or sovereignty
Feeling the quiet pull toward desires that defy what you were taught love should be
✧ In the Fire of Transformation
Opening or closing a relationship and wanting to do so with integrity
Transitioning between relationship structures and needing space to orient
Rebuilding trust, desire, or the courage to speak hard truths within
✧ Recalibrating the Core
Facing jealousy, attachment wounds, or mismatched needs — and ready to meet them with clarity instead of collapse
Repairing ruptures from past infidelity, broken agreements, or early CNM misattunements
Tired of looping in communication breakdowns and ready to shift the patterns at the root
Hearing the call to relate with more intention, more congruence, more truth
✧ Devoted to Legacy Love
Calling in partnership that honors your erotic nature and your soul’s path
Desiring to co-creating with beloveds in ways that feel less like survival and more like sacred expansion
Living and loving at the fringes of “normal” — and craving support that meets your depth
SOVEREIGN:
What You’ll Walk Away With
Crystal-clear truth that melts confusion
Transformation that meets your real life, not bypasses it
Communication that fosters presence, attunement, & lasting peace
Practical wisdom & insights on your love life you can apply immediately
Depth, eroticism, and integrity in how you relate
Sovereignty in love, sex, conflict, and commitment
love free + have wild sex
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love free + have wild sex ✿
Investment as Devotion
This isn’t just a purchase. It’s a portal.
Your investment is a declaration; to embody truth, honor desire, and build the kind of love that reflects your becoming.
Choose Your Entry into a Sovereign Crucible…
🜂 The Initiation
3 months of support
6 x 90-minute sessions
$1,650 investment
Payment plans up to 18 months available with zero % interest
🜃 The Devotion
6 months of support
12 x 90-minute sessions
$2,700 investment
Payment plans up to 18 months available with zero % interest
🜁 The Legacy
12 months of support
24 x 90-minute sessions
$4,200 investment
Payment plans up to 18 months available with zero % interest
All paths include:
🌟 Custom rituals, resources,+ integration prompts
📲 Unlimited WhatsApp support (voice/text) for the duration of the container
🌀 Access to the ‘Sovereign Relationship Toolkit’ upon entry >>> a library of practices & rituals to create healthy communication & deepen intimacy with those you love
The Five Core Anchors of the Sovereign Coaching Crucible
>>> The uniquely powerful coaching framework that guides this journey into profound transformation in session & beyond <<<
✧ ANCHOR #1: Clarity, Congruence & The Sovereign Crucible
Cut through confusion and return to what’s truly yours.
✧ ANCHOR #2: Communication & Connection
Speak what’s been unspeakable. Build intimacy without performance.
✧ ANCHOR #3: Deeper Healing & Actualization of Wholeness
Turn rupture into reclamation through somatic and parts-based integration.
✧ ANCHOR #4: Your Sovereign Sexual Blueprint
Reclaim your erotic rhythm through breath, play, and pleasure.
✧ ANCHOR #5: Integration & Devotion
Root your transformation into sustainable, embodied practice.
The Core Anchors of this work are not a linear path, but living threads woven throughout coaching sessions and at-home self and/or partnered practice—creating a journey that is distinctly yours.
Think of them as landmarks on a spiraling path: always there to return to, yet never walked the same way twice. Each individual & their relationship(s) brings a different rhythm, and yet every journey is anchored in a this shared foundation that creates profound results & transformation at the very root.
Together, we’ll co-create a path that honors your goals and desires for this crucible—moving at the pace where growth feels natural and in the way that sovereignty in love, sex, and relating becomes embodied.
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"I could envision having love that includes the physical, intellectual, and spiritual connection that I crave."
After working with Michaela I got out of black & white thinking, felt way more open, adventurous, and could envision having love that includes the physical, intellectual, and spiritual connection that I crave. I loved her creative toolset, the grounding, the parts work that she led me in, and her joy, positivity, and open inquiry.
✷ Ember, Bay Area
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"One of the best decisions I have ever made, I wholeheartedly recommend her!"
I am so grateful for Michaela!
With deep attunement, embodied wisdom and precise support her work has brought me into vital changes in my health and love life. With her mentoring I have activated several key habit changes as well as moving forward significantly with my life goals.
Each session was empowering, profoundly encouraging and rich with effective wellbeing practices and advanced love skills. One of the best decisions I have made.. I wholeheartedly recommend her!
✷ Sheya Gracewind
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"I would love to work with her again!"
Michaela was a treat to work with! I appreciated her mind/body connection and patience with me as I worked through some relationship hurdles. She simply guided and never forced opinions or directives. I would love to work with her again!
✷ Erin B, Arizona
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"I learned more about sexuality & dating in one hour than I have in the last 5 years."
I had been looking to accept this aspect of myself [desire] purely mentally and spiritually and not checking in physically… I learned more [about sexuality & dating] in one hour than I have in the last 5 years. Thank you so much Michaela for sharing space with me, my gratitude cannot be expressed enough!
✷ Gordon
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"She opened my eyes to the connection between our bodies and emotions... she is gifted in her ability to help."
I want to give Michaela an excellent recommendation. I am a California licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. It is hard as a therapist to open up and do your own work. I had been harboring resentment towards a family member. I was wondering if I was ever going to be able to forgive. Michaela did a very good job of listening and then presenting session exercises that helped me look at how this resentment was affecting me. She opened my eyes to "somatic" issues and the connection between our bodies and emotions. I really appreciate working with her and believe that she is gifted in her ability to help.
✷ Jamie B, Seattle
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"Michaela helped me get to more of a place of empathy and see how we could move forward."
Grateful that coaching led me in the direction of realizing he wasn’t my partner. Michaela helped me get to more of a place of empathy and see how we could move forward. I realized that I needed to stand up for myself and see that he was never going to change and be the partner I deserved… [when I made that decision] I finally felt free & happy.
✷ Sam in Jackson, WY
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“We are capable of navigating challenges with curiosity & finding our way back to love.”
“We had topics that were really challenging to have non-triggered conversations about—loss, ENM, and unmet needs. Michaela was able to hold a really safe container for some of our hardest conversations, which led to a much deeper understanding of each other and a lot more compassion.
It opened up space for us to talk through painful experiences—ones where I had previously been the only one to share the impact. We both felt so much clarity and insight through our sessions. I got to truly understand what my partner was experiencing.
Michaela’s ability to zoom in, support one of us in being deeply seen, and then guide the other into new clarity was powerful. We left knowing we are incredibly capable of navigating challenges with curiosity and finding our way back to love.”
✷ Rebecca, Denmark
You may be wondering…
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2 × 90 min coaching calls/month for the duration of the coaching container (3, 6, or 12 months available).
Unlimited support via Whatsapp M-F 10am-5pm PST. Response time is typically within 24-48hrs or less during business hours.
Custom designed at home practices, rituals, & prompts for in between sessions, both for self discovery & with those you love.
Lifetime access to ‘The Sovereign Relationship Toolkit’ upon entry.
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Weekdays at 10am, 1pm, 3pm, or 5pm PST.
You’ll schedule sessions either on your own via my private booking platform or in call based on what works best for you.
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Yes. All genders, orientations, and dynamic relationship constellations are welcome.
Typically calls are 1:1 or 1:2 to give time & attention to each person & relationship… however group calls can be valuable for learning new skills, education, and deeper dive breathwork or intimacy practices.
No extra cost for additional partner(s) in session, ever.
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No. This begins with you, wherever you are… and evolves as life evolves with you.
If you begin alone & want to include a partner down the line, that is also welcome.
No extra cost for additional partner(s) in session, ever.
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I review all applications personally and respond within 2–3 business days to let you know if it’s a good fit via Whatsapp or email based on your preference.
If we’re a go to work together you’ll receive more detailed information about the program & next steps after that point.
To help move the process along smoothly please be sure to fill out the application in depth & answer every question as honestly as you can.
You can fill out your application here.
I INVITE YOU TO TAKE A DEEP BREATH & NOTICE...
Is there a warmth, a resonance that lets you know this is correct for you?
Or perhaps there is there a hum… but it’s not yet fully clear?
That’s not hesitation — it’s reverence.
There is no urgency & no rush. Just truth.
Stay close. Dream on it if you must, but don’t sleep on it… you feel me?
Let the information & the vibration behind it stir you.
And when your sovereign heart says yes — I’ll be here, holding the door open for you.